Monday, October 22, 2012

my sweet counselor

    • How r u
  • 仪珍
    • emm.. not so good in work
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Today u night off
  • 仪珍
    • thinking to change department
    • ya, first night off
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • If stress then it's not healthy
    • If cant have meal or pee pee time then can consider transfer
    • How u feel
  • 仪珍
    • haha
    • it is just, there is somekind of people always wanted everything to be perfect
    • and some thing happen they will start blame on others
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Yup especially in Icu
      We r human being
  • 仪珍
    • so that they will not get involve
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Yup this happens everywhere
  • 仪珍
    • no
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • They defend themselves to survive
    • U need to speak for urself
  • 仪珍
    • i jusst cant..
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • If u want to stay, u need to stand for urself
    • If not u wouldn't survive
  • 仪珍
    • u are right
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Everytime anything happen u will get the blame
  • 仪珍
    • i might just cant survive in this area
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Noone will talk for u coz u don't pay them
  • 仪珍
    • and some more, they will poke u behind
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • They will just push every single thing to u when they have every single opportunity
    • Yes
  • 仪珍
    • especialy my supervisor
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • U need to be friend with senior n managers
      Be kind to them
      Build up rapport
  • 仪珍
    • she remember every single small complaints
    • Then when u say something they will listen n will try to help u
    • U talk to ur supervisor before anyone else do
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Too bad

    • Lesson learnt
  • 仪珍
    • bp come back to 150 within 2 hours, and dopa off that time
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • It's okay
  • 仪珍
    • doc and relative never blame
    • Learn from mistake
      Everyone has mistake
      Everyone isn't perfect only God is
  • 仪珍
    • so, u mean, i wrong?
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • But u feel bad after she say
    • yes
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Well, if I were u, I will give separately
    • Coz I need to do my own assessment
  • 仪珍
    • pt was having the same episode so thats why come down to ccu before
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Not depending the ward nurse
    • Coz I only believe in myself never trust others
    • In the ward no close monitoring, but in Icu it's too obvious n easy to detect the low bp
    • That's why Icu nurse should be prudent
  • 仪珍
    • ok, if like that, i think i cant become a good nurse in icu
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • U r good nurse, but need more critical thinking
      This one not everyone has it
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • No one is perfect remember
  • 仪珍
    • i think, it is time to change department
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Icu nurse is being trained to be clever in the sense that to have critical thinking, advocate for ur patient
    • I'm not asking u to give up
    • Look, one day u observe ur senior
    • I'm sure u have someone that u admire in the unit
  • 仪珍
    • i am just not that kind of personality A person
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • U observe her attitude her work her knowledge how to deal with patient n doctors
    • U lost confident
    • Give urself more time
  • 仪珍
    • i never got confident at all, so cant said that i lost confident
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Everyone is the same when newly join Icu
    • No one is so perfect or so good
      They just used to what they do
    • Patient's safety always comes first
    • If u think of that u wouldn't be wrong
    • already 1 and half year in icu, sister said, she had change me alot, but there is something i need to pick up still
    • Of course
    • Even I'm 3 years here, I've still got a lot more to learn
    • Different child has different development
      Same goes to adults
    • Don't give up
    • ahkar, at this moment i just cant ..
    • But
    • If u have decided to leave
      Tell me ur plan
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Where to go
    • R u able to cope in other department
    • Will ur life better
    • i am thinking to go cath lab
    • That's what I was thinking too
    • More relax
    • i might just cant go back to normal ward
    • Don't go GW
    • That's terrible
    • Making life short
    • now these ward staff are only busy with all kind od documentation
    • cath lab is better
    • Definitely
    • i ask d, mia said will have short of staff next jan
    • Mia still there
    • they will not take the new gratuated
    • ya, Mia still there
    • Good if u can go
    • Better for u
    • they working enviroment is better
    • office hour also
    • Ya agree
    • Wow
    • but sometime need to be on call
    • but as long as it is not sunday, then it is ok
    • i might need to type a letter for this transfer
    • Hmmm
    • Okay
    • what should i write in the leter
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Have u talk to ur manager
    • she has talk to me regarding this incident
    • but she never know i want to transfer
    • U say for learning purpose, u want to expose to new environment
    • Expand ur knowledge n gain more clinical experience through assisting in procedures
    • Ya
  • 仪珍
    • she said after i come back from night off , she want to see me, with the "new" superior who complaint me, and our manager
  • Rachel Yee Wei Kar
    • Walao
    • so, that's make me feel, maybe it is time for me to go out icu
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记，青年营心得，2012

又，再一次成为组长，心情跟上一次很不一样。一开始是很压力的，因为讲员很有“料”， 从美国飞过来，要预定他的时间还要两年前就先预定好， 第二个原因是， 其他组长也都很有“料”， 而我是最小，也是唯一在当组长的姐妹。 唉。。 怎么办？可是， 当真正就进入小组时，很感恩的是，就是会有人帮我总结，哈哈。。那就是善敏姐。

其实，在这次营会当中， 我认识了两个值得学习的人，一个就是善敏姐， 另一个是讲员的太太，爱君师母。 两位姐妹可都称得上是才德的夫人。两位长老的夫人可都可以说得是上帝大大赏赐给他们的， 她们的才能和爱神的心其实是可以跟她们的丈夫媲美的， 但，她们都多数都只是在丈夫的背后协助。但如果有机会让她们开金口， 肯定会让人刮目相看。就像最后一天师母的分享，第一句话就狠狠地射中姐妹们的心。她说，你们做姐妹的， 要在主里敬重丈夫，让丈夫做你们的头， 不要忘了是夏娃把罪带进这世界来的。（这里有爱君师母的见证可拱参考- http://blog.udn.com/grace92182/3426017 ） 哇，我好像被人打了一棒， 狠狠敲在我的脑袋上！ 的确， 很受用。就像讲员跟神说，这车是祢的，祢管； 这工作是祢的，祢管； 师母仿佛要说的是，这家庭是祢的， 祢管；她甚至要说，祢是我丈夫的头，祢管。



再来， 我觉得今年的游戏很有意义，更好的是没有人因游戏受伤，哈哈。因为职业病，所以去营会我还是去当护士的。男女大大不相同，想法完全不一样，是经过这次测验后才深深了解的。还有大家分派不同的任务，去街上分享神的爱也是让我们都感触良深的。一开始， 大家都会不习惯别人奇怪的眼光，我们会因为被拒绝而难过，受伤。在有限的时间内发挥团队精神会有些困难。有些组是在后面默默付出， 可能工作性质是很肮脏的，很卑微的，但甘心乐意地做下去，当看到成果时，必定有成就感。我个人是觉得很满足，因为可以把我们的喜乐和神的爱传出去，借着歌唱，把欢乐感染给人，也间接的传福音，一举两得。劳累了45分钟回到会所，长辈们亲切地为我们洗脚，虽然尴尬，但温馨，像回到家一样，主耶稣在世上工作何其不是这样，遭人歧视辱骂， 但因爱父和爱人的心，再艰难的任务也都完成了。回到天家是何等喜乐。









  在营会来临之前，营长有吩咐大家要带晚装，负责人精心筹备了一个罗曼蒂克的晚餐， 大家也精心打扮了一番，绅士们有礼貌地招待女士，从入场到坐下来，绅士们都展现了他们的风度，小游戏也的确大大地得到了破冰的效果。











 最后，讲员有“料”的分享，说实在的，我不记得仔细的内容了，但，续八福的生命后，他所要传达的是基督徒的生活。大家，你看了马太 六- 八 章， 五遍了吗？
读经，祷告，禁食，奉献，管理钱财等等等。。 我就不一一细谈。映像最深刻的是，讲员他竟然花了一整天的时间在说，不要为明天忧虑。是的，他真的就用了一整天来讲这个课题。

 以下是之前我所整理的，

Do not worry about tomorow,
it is an order!!! it's sin if never follow order
Condition : u have to live for God
Reason :
1. we have our Father Lord
2. no use to worry
3. not a good testimony
How?
1. See, what had God done for u
2, Think, how amazing He is
3. Seek, the kingdom of God and His righteousness
Conclusion: 全然的奉献， 完全的相信， 神的掌权

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